Saturday, April 3, 2010
Ramblings...
I don't want a newborn ever again...so I don't really know if I will actually have anymore children...I don't want D to be an only child though...and I'm pretty sure I'm not spending tens of thousands on adopting either. I'm at the salon going blonde for the warm months. My child is the coolest kid I know. I've had so much fun playing and chasing him the last couple of weeks in the beautiful weather. I'm so glad I'm married to my husband. He's amazing! Don't know what to do about our child care arrangements. D and I both love his sitter and she loves him, but I think he needs socialization with other kids on a regular basis. I wish sh'd keep another toddler! Great daycare just opened about 2 minutes from my house. I love it too. What to do???? I'm down 20lbs and very few people have noticed. Guess I need to be stick thin for peoe to realize it. I'd like to lose 10 more and ill be happy, although I'm pretty happy with myself now. I'm about to do a major overhaul on my backyard to have it summer play time ready!
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Really? Here I thought you had a bit of baby fever!
Its funny! This changes all the time. But what I think I really have is pregnancy fever. I loved being pregnant and would love to be pregnant again. I'd also love to have another 6 month old and up. I could totally skip the first 6 months! I'm sure we'll have another I just don't know when yet. I worry bc I want d to have a playmate and I don't want too much time in between, but I know I'm not ready yet either...so I guess we're just playing it by ear for now.
I'm in the same boat right now except I want to be pregnant, I just don't want to have another baby right now lol! Good thing Rob is open and supportive about us trying surrogacy later (much later) this year/next.
I wouldn't be concerned about his socialization right now. I am a SAHM and my son had limited interaction with other kids until he was about 3 when I put him in Preschool. He adjusted pretty quickly, the only issue was the separation from me. Now he is in Pre-K and thriving. I would suggest keeping him where he is happy right now and evaluate again after he is 2. If you are lucky enough to have an amazing sitter that loves your child I would take advantage of that for as long as possible. Perhaps set up playdates with friends or join a mommy group such as MOPS.
I also seem to go blonde for the summer months, so I'm jealous! I hope that someone notices your hard work, weight is such an emotionally charged subject.
I just wanted to write you that I do know my choice was a little foolhardy. I actually debated telling my Mom what I did. You really can't judge a book by it's cover, but even if it were endangering my life, I just knew I was supposed to ask her. Stupid though it may have been!
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