Saturday, March 12, 2011
confession
So I have a confession to make. As much as I wanted this pregnancy and as planned as it was...I'm not excited. I'm sure that it's the mixture of being so sick, a toddler in terrible twos, and no ultrasound yet...but I find myself thinking what the hell did I get myself into. That's awful. I know it's terrible to say. Is this normal for 2nd time moms? Someone please tell me I'm not a horrible awful person.
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You're not an awful person! You're a hormonal pregnant lady who is tired and running after a toddler. I'd be more worried if you didn't have a few moments of "omg what did we just do" lol! Totally normal :)
(((HUGS))) of course you are not a horrible person!!!
Oh goodness, no, you're not a terrible person! And sadly, you'll say this many more times once you've got a newborn and a toddler. But it's normal. You're a great mom to one child and you'll be an awesome mom to two children. Just remember it won't always be that hard. ((Hugs))
For me that was normal. I was so sick and working and the boys just turned one...it wasn't a good mix. It did go faster the 2nd time around. That was a blessing. I don't think I could have done it if time had gone as slowly as it had with the twins. Of course this one is my Mama's boy. We didn't have any problems bonding once he was here. That? also a blessing.
Oh I have totally been there! And like others have said, you'll probably have a few "what were we thinking!?!" moments even after the baby arrives. As I've said in my blog I'm not finding this transition easy, but I know it will be worth it in the end!
I think that's totally normal! My pregnancy with O was HELL. While I want to get pregnant again (glutton for punishment?), I know there will be times I question my sanity. Much luck to you!
Ps? Found you via Haven....didn't want you to think I was a weirdo...I am, but not that way...
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